Duck who climbs trees, squirrel who swims

I was talking to my Aunt Judy the other day and we were talking about looking at your child's gifts and talents and encouraging them in their talents and gifts.  My Aunt Judy said, "It is like expecting your child who is a duck to climb a tree, or your child who is a squirrel to swim."

I have met some mom's who want their duck to climb trees and their squirrel to swim.  Your child is specially designed by God and your job as a parent is to find out what he or she is designed for and encourage your child to be the best of what God designed them to be.  Not every child does well in school, that does not mean your child is a failure.  Thomas Edison dropped out of school and was considered a failure and we all know how that story ended. 

By identifying your child's gifts and talents and encouraging them will give them the tools they need to succeed in life.  Some children are very successful in school and their siblings may not be as successful.  You should encourage and support your child in academics, but also encourage the siblings in their particular gifts and talents.  If as a family unit you support each other in each talent and gift each individual has been blessed with it will bring family unity and a lot less sibling rivalry.

While encouraging your child in their gifts and talents make sure you do not neglect the basic life skills they need.  A duck may not be able to climb a tree, but should be able to fly up in one if there is a fox on the prowl.  A squirrel may not live on a lake, but should be able to swim to safety if they fall in a lake.  If your child does not do well in math, but has great writing skills; make sure they can manage personal finances and the basics to get through life.

Accept your child along with their gifts and talents.  Not every child is going to be extraordinary in the things this world applauds.  Ask God to show you the unique gifts and talents He has blessed your child with and encourage your child to pursue that talent or gift.

Do not withhold good from those who deserve it, when it is in your power to act.  Proverbs 3:27